How to impress a girl?

By Kavya NSV

Yes, The wait is finally over!  Time has come for you to finally know, know the glimpse of a great secret-  How to impress a girl. As exciting as this sounds to some, to many, this sounds like a nightmare. But don’t worry! As girls, I can assure you that we are not a very complicated bunch and once you know our perspective you’ll slowly start to break down the process for yourself . ( Not to mention, This is one of the much-awaited blog posts from our website)

1. Getting attention

If you have been friends for years or you just met, there is a way to impress a girl and grab her attention. On contrary to many people's beliefs, It’s not the looks and features but the attire that attracts the eye and there is a word for it -“looking groomed”. It isn’t about branded shirts or fancy watches but to be in your own style while wearing clothes that fit you which are washed and ironed. Coming to personal hygiene, no one wants to talk to a guy who stinks so make sure you take a bath and smell good.  It’s simple, girls like guys who have a sense of cleanliness.

2. Think before you speak

Okay so you have made a good impression but when then you are trying to build up a conversation, does she ignore you or starts talking to someone else? So how would you impress a girl with your talk? Most guys during the initial conversations start talking too much about irrelevant things. Imagine yourself in the same situation, when some random person or sometimes the person you know starts talking about a topic that you have no clue about, aren’t you bored? Try building up a conversation in which both have something to talk about, ask questions when they talk about some topic that interests you as well.

3. Understanding female friendships

If you want to impress a girl you like, the first step would always be friends. All girls love to be with someone who understands them as a person and respect them for their work but there is also one other thing they appreciate, a good boundary. No one likes a clingy, needy person around them all the time. Don’t try to stay around a girl trying to impress her ALL THE TIME! and invade her personal space, instead, be a person who is naturally impressive and charming and how do you do that? You do that by being comfortable and confident in your own skin.

4. Catch the clues and know when to advance

When a girl you like, likes you back there is a high chance that she’ll drop some clues like laughing at your jokes or trying to have an exclusive conversation with you when you are in a group. It’s on you to read those clues and when you’re sure she likes you too, pick up the courage and ask her out on a date. A date doesn’t necessarily mean a luxurious dinner, sometimes a cup of coffee or a game of pool would just be fine. The idea is to spend some time together to actually know if you can bear each other in the absence of all other people.

5. If she is not into you, accept that.

When a girl tries to ignore you, many guys think that she is playing hard to get but that’s just a very small percentage. When a girl ignores you or tells you that she is not into you then she is not into you!  Don’t further try impressing her or try convincing her. You are gold and you don’t deserve someone who doesn’t give you attention for free, just know you deserve better.